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Scammers never prosper. And that adage is especially true when professional “honey trap” Madeline Smith is the bait
But when the vixen isn’t busy testing the fidelity of men taken at the behest of their questionable partners, she’s sharing tips and tricks on how to spot the telltale signs that a guy is up to no good.
“Don’t get it twisted ladies,” Los Angeles-based Smith wrote in a trending TikTok caption. “There’s nothing wrong with taking concrete steps to protect your heart.”
And, unfortunately, in today’s digital age, opportunities to cheat on a significant other are just a few clicks away.
But Smith, a siren who sends flirtatious messages to off-market men for a living, ensures that nosy wives and girlfriends don’t have to be computer-savvy in order to pin their boys’ cheating on them.
Instead, the know-it-all suggests that women keep their eyes open for any of the following eight major red flags.Â
He hides his phone
“When you’re out for dinner, or just on the couch watching TV, does your man leave his phone face up or face down?” Smith asked in a column for the Daily Mail. “It may seem trivial, but ask yourself: what could be going on that he doesn’t want anyone to see?”
“I think it’s rubbish when people say phones should be private,” she continued. “You can be whoever you want to be online (trust me, I’d know), and you have to accept that your partner might feel insecure about your online activities.
Smith insists innocent boys don’t hide their devices.
“If you have nothing to hide, why should you care?” she wrote. “It meant a lot to me that my fiance was happy to share his passcode.”
And while a man “can’t control” whether a woman decides to text him, “he can control his reaction,” she asserted.
“Take one of my ‘failed’ experiments,” said Smith. “A client asked me to test her husband, and he politely informed me that he was happily married. When I shared the happy news with her, she said that he had already told her the conversation.
“Guys, it’s that simple: transparency, always.”
You are not in his photos
“With my pregnant client, it was an immediate red flag that he didn’t have a picture of her on his Instagram profile,” Smith warned. “Even if he claims he never posts on social media, you should at least show up on his profile picture.
“Your partner should be proud to show you off,” said the sex expert. “If he’s not, it signals a lack of commitment.”
He uses Snapchat
Smith is skeptical of any person using “Chat.â€
“There is no good reason why any male past school age should have Snapchat on his phone,” she wrote. SnapChat with the USP of deleting messages after they have been viewed – is an app for scammers.
“I’ve only ever known grown men who use it to send and receive clear pictures,” Smith warned. “Whatever his explanation, if he’s a regular Snapper, be very careful.”
It will not show the location
“Nowadays, it’s normal to have your loved ones on location-sharing apps,” Smith noted. “One of the red flags I often hear is, ‘My husband’s location always seems to go off without explanation.’
But the pro-pinup isn’t buying it.
“Cheaters will come up with an excuse as to why they don’t want to share their location, but then insist that their girlfriend share theirs,” groans Smith. “Which brings me to my next red flag…”
Unequal expectations
“Cheaters are jealous people with fragile egos,” she claimed. “This is almost always the reason why they cheat: proving a woman’s love is never enough for them.”
Smith urges women not to fall into a one-sided trap of irrational rules
“My clients often report that their partner expects them to have unrealistic boundaries with men: cutting off male friends, even not talking to male colleagues,” she told the Daily Mail. “Meanwhile, he’s posting photos of himself with bikini-clad ghosts who are ‘just friends.’
He accuses you of cheatingIng
“Does your partner call you ‘crazy’ or claim ‘you’re just insecure’ if you raise concerns?” she asked. “Does he accuse you of treason for no apparent reason?
“Not only is this gassy behavior designed to be humiliating,” Smith wrote, “[but] it is also very revealing.â€
Her lesson: he is “projecting” his cheating guilt onto you.
“In a loving relationship, the response to concerns that arise should be shock and gentle affirmation,” Smith said.
“Think, ‘Oh my god, I would never do that to you,'” the eye encouraged. “No, ‘Are you crazy?’ I can’t deal with your insecurity right now
Intuition is the key
“Women are more emotionally intelligent than men,” Smith said. “But we’re also masters at convincing ourselves that strange behavior must have an innocent explanation — when every bone in our body is screaming differently.”
Instead of rationalizing a man’s weirdness, “trust your gut,” Smith asserted.
“Almost all the messages I get are from women saying something doesn’t feel right and, unfortunately, they’re usually right,” she revealed. “If in doubt, call him ‘or engage the services of someone like me!”
Emotional distancing
“Does your partner seem detached during conversations?” Smith asked. “Have his compliments stopped? Did it affect you a lot and not anymore?â€
If any of these questions prompt a yes, the two-timing human detector urges women to beware.
“This kind of emotional distancing is one of the biggest red flags.”
Delete the cheat
Even without Smith’s help, some savvy cyber-intelligences are becoming capable of sniffing out dogs themselves.
Abby Paige, a digital content creator, tampered with her Wi-Fi settings to catch her wife having sex with other women around the world earlier this year.Â
And Liesel, a Gen Z from Missouri, learned the truth about their girlfriend’s infidelity while innocently scrolling through social media.
The brunette accidentally discovered her ex’s misdeeds after coming across another woman’s “Get Ready With Me” TikTok clip.
In the video, the other girl was getting ready for a hot date – at Liesel’s son’s house.
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